"Seduction isn't making someone do what they don't want to do. Seduction is enticing someone into doing what they secretly want to do already" - Anonymous So I stumbled on this site by accident and after being away working and traveling on cruise ships for two years I have returned home. However returning home means coming back to my loving wonderful family.....in a very very small town! Realizing that none of the men around me can satisfy me I decided that internet dating might be fun. So now comes the part we both had trouble with - describing ourselves in the most *truthful* way possible, also know as shameless self promotion: I am a outgoing, upbeat, positive, lively and engaging yet sarcastic little fire bomb. I am passionate, articulate, witty, driven and believe that there is more to life out there, this being a direct influence from my travels and traditional upbringing. I have always been independent and self sufficient, however I have realized the value and pleasure of being taken care of and taking care of someone. Travel is my spiritual guidance, I believe that there is so much we can learn from people and cultures. I have seem more than most, but there is still so much to discover. I would love to be the one by your side to discover new things together or be taught new things, as well as be your teacher. I believe that you should be a true gentleman to me, pull out chairs, stand when I enter a room, open doors and these things should be done because you desire to do them, not because you think you should. I have been loved by men from around the world and know what it is to be treated like a true lady, however I decided long ago that it is as easy to make a rich man happy as it is to make a poor man, this being why you are reading my profile. I want a man who takes charge but still puts my needs first because if you make me happy I will make you happy beyond your wildest dreams. At the end of the day I know where my life is headed and I want a man to be my lover, share my life, my love, to challenge me to be a better person, to be a mentor, an equal and a From drinking fine wine in Napa Valley and great conversation to snuggling on the couch without saying a word. In a room full of people I can be the life of the party, or the sexy candy on your arm impressing your friends. Dynamic, complex, inspiring and fulfilling.