I'm told that I ooze a sense of power when entering a room. It makes some adore me yet makes the weak despise me. I'm genuine. Quick to laugh and deeply compassionate with a sometimes cheesy sense of humor that can come across poorly in written communication. So how am I doing so far, my lady? Though I do know how to use an oxford comma; which makes me indispensable. I'm a bit of a chameleon 😎, navigating social situations with delightful savoir-flair; equally capable of charming an entire room or carving out a cozy space just for you and me. I transform quickly from refined dinner date to intriguing playmate–– with only the closing of a door and the click of a lock. My interests are varied and tend toward the creative. I find pleasure in reading, writing, painting (well, I try at least), and love embarking on urban adventures and international travel (better have your passport, my dear, or we can get you one). As creative as my mind is, I am more than capable of waxing poetic regarding sports (Ping-Pong or Football), pop culture (Taylor Swift or Jay-Z), politics (Trump or Obama), business, and current affairs. Above all, I value originality and genuine conversation. You'll find me to be a non-judgmental party. Maybe this means spilling your wildest dreams, deepest secrets, or simply being able to let loose, be silly and enjoy yourself– with me, this is easy to do. I make it a priority to let go and to live freely. I once read of a character in a book who felt that living privately and out of the public eye was the only way to live your life exactly as you wish. Similarly, I see this connection as our perfectly constructed opportunity to escape from reality, from the insipid habits we often fall into, to a new reality, one where you and I can do exactly as we please. Let's take a trip into our future together and dream a little crazy. On our 3rd rendezvous (assuming you're incredible the first two times we meet)...we would go to museums, watch a Broadway show a Radio City, eat some pizza at Ray Ray’s, go shopping in SOHO, and play tag in Central Park. We would sneak down a little path and have delicious wine on the rooftops of the little white-washed houses overlooking the ocean and, for a second, remember in absolute certainty why the heart of life is good. Then we would head back into town and dance all night at a sand bar to Greek folk music while sipping Ouzo (a Greek drink). Don’t even get me started on the trip back: Paris, Italy, Spain, Morocco, etc. Speaking of Morocco, do you like hookah? Okay, enough of the crazy-dreaming 😜. (...but that was super-fun!). More about me... I have my own apartment and no roommates. I have my own car. My finances are in great shape. I run a video media business that I love. I travel internationally, so you need to have a valid passport, or we can get you one. Are you feeling that nervous excitement? 🙏🏽 Don't worry, me too! Reach out, tell me a bit about yourself and let's chat or meet. I can't wait to hear from you. I have this aching-chill feeling in my bones that you and I will get along quite famously! If you enjoyed my quirky writing, there's much more. Let’s build a genuine connection so that you can experience a true emotional connection with the kind of man you often dream about. The joys in life favor the bold. How do you expect to find an amazing man if you just sit there thinking about it and don't send messages? 👉 Message me; there's no value in being shy all your life.

My Ideal Person 💎 Since you were 14, you've dreamed of meeting and gazing into the confident eyes of a man like me. Today you’ve found me. So don’t let me slip away. Once we meet and I feel I want to spend regular time with you, I move swiftly.

Many ladies are just pretty faces, and lovely hips and that's it. So, I must ask, "Are you more than a pretty face?" If YES, what I say next is tailor-made for you.

If you want a real emotional connection (not some monthly allowance thing that makes you feel purchased like a cheap used car); and you inspire me to deactivate this profile -- get ready for a new life.

When I'm not in my split-level Clinton Hill, Brooklyn, NY, home producing marketing videos for clients, you can find me globetrotting in South America or the Caribbean. I desire a woman who is more brains than just a pretty face. A bit of a dork so we can be silly together. She must be totally comfortable with her Sexy and a woman that takes care of her body.

Let's talk about you 👩. You're intelligent, charming, and perhaps, a bit dorky around someone you're comfortable with. You're generally content but something is missing. Maybe it's intimacy, affection, or perhaps a sense of excitement and freedom.

You understand the value of memories, experiences that can only occur when they come with no sense of responsibility. Something that simply does not exist in your current reality. That's precisely why you're here and why you must contact me.

If you're looking for a man (not a mamas-boy) who will always be there for you but who won't be clingy or jealous, I'm glad you're reading my profile. I know at times you need space to do your thang, and you respect a man who’s independent and has goals that he’s working towards.

I bet most guys look at you and see a buttoned-up, super-serious woman who plans out every minute of her day. However, you probably have a wild, spontaneous side. It doesn’t come out that often, but only a real man can handle you when it does. You may even have a part of you hiding from friends and family.

Understandable, I'm the same way. It’s a part of you that you’re afraid to show. You sometimes feel like it’s a dirty little secret, but you can’t deny it exists. This part of you wants things other people tell you that you shouldn’t want. Sometimes it makes you consider doing things you would never really do.

I choose to spend time with a woman with impeccable taste 🍷, a touch of dorkiness and naughtiness. A woman who values intellectual and emotional connections just as much as she does the physical. While there is almost nothing better than unbridled desire and uninhibited adventure if you can have the full package, why wouldn't you?

I firmly believe that we must indulge and spoil ourselves and live luxuriously, with a bit of wild abandon whenever the opportunity presents itself. So, if you value exclusivity, discretion, and quality interactions, then we're well on our way to creating something rather divine. I invite you to say "Hello!" to me. I know you feel a bit nervous. Just realize that I don't bite, well, not on the first date at least...lol.

I have a story to tell you. Not so long ago in a land not so far away (Maryland), lived a man whose ideas and dreams were far too big for his college buddies. By fate, he found his way back home to the City That Never Sleeps (NY) and soon became immersed in a life of excitement and adventure underneath the glittering lights of Gotham with a call to see more.

And he did find more. He became a Video Author. A connoisseur of flavored vodkas, lacy lingerie, champagne cocktails, and stamped passports. But he mostly realized his extraordinary gift for connecting, listening, and intellectually intertwining. He could be serious or silly, but either way, only you and he existed when he gazed into your eyes.

That man is me. A true 5 feet 9 1/2-inch-tall, Godiva Chocolate 🍫 dipped skin man with an athletic build.