It took me awhile but I've finally learned to love all aspects of Life ...When it comes to a relationship, I feel that communications, respect and patience are the keys to a successful relationship...I also go by two quotes that I keep very close to me and they are.. “When one door of happiness closes, another opens but often we look so long at the closed door that we don’t see the one that has been opened for us” and the other one is .... “Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they’ll love you back! Don’t expect love in return, Just wait for it to grow in their hearts, but if it doesn’t, be content that it grew in yours”A warm sincere smile is very important....Someone spontaneous, knows how to communicate, knows how to give respect as well as earn it. Someone fun, a lil daring, creative, young at heart yet mature in the mind. Someone willing to teach as well as learn.. And: I've learned that all relationships are like living creatures....it needs to be taken care of and nurtured....Two people can only get what they have put in..