I am a normal guy, fit, fun and sane, educated and nice, I take care of myself, I do not smoke, drink socially only; 5'8, 145, 30w, br/br(with a little highlights now); going to the gym to feel good and keep the waistline in check, not for showing off the big pecs or to be beefy; I like NPR, Kennedy Center, good movies, big musical or small theater, museums, galleries... going out with friends or stay home reading, cooking and gardening, I have a rather big yard. I have many good friends, male or female, gay or straight, I am out and comfortable with that, wear good cloth but not flamboyant, buy nice things but frugal in other areas, I watch my spending but not cheap. I am loyal, honest and flexible. not high maintenance. My ex and I had a 7 year relationship, we broke up 3 years ago, I am ready to move on with my life. Enough about me. Hope to hear more about you!