Life is worthless unless U can make a positive difference. To truly now me is to understand and appreciate me only then can we share a love that’s true. I'm just an average guy; sincere, committed, honest, filled with morals & integrity valuing family & friends above all; in search of a love that’s genuine, something that my heart can believe in. I’m tired of rhetorical questions. Please read my entire profile & messaged me only if U are sincerely & honestly interested because time is precious & slipping away. It saddens me reading profiles that are discriminatory towards others. “Never judge a book by it’s cover.” Sometimes I wonder if people realize what they think they want is not necessarily, what is best for them. It’s time we accept that no one is perfect even though some write beautifully intricate flawless mesmerizing profiles. I’ve endured tormenting struggles and pains but, my scars/wounds have made me the blessed person I am today. Sometimes I cry & wish I could change my past, to be rich & famous but then fear I would have gotten lost in the ways of the world. Now that I appreciate the journey traveled, I wish to use what I have learnt to spare others the pain endured. I’m searching for the rarest of jewels possessing an ethereal heart. I value friendship dearly & understand that my soul mate does not necessarily have to be my lover. I promise to be honest no matter what because it is on that foundation that true friendship blossoms & metamorphoses into true love. My goal here is to give destiny a little help. I pray that this, my last attempt will be successful. I dream of finding someone that is full of integrity, powerful, intelligent, sincere, pure in heart, can understand & appreciate my dreams/goals. Together we should become a force to be reckoned with as we strive to make a positive difference in this shattering world. It kills me inside when I see people blessed with wealth, power, gifts to make a difference just throwing it away. I pray wondering why did I give up my chances of fame & fortune, would it have tarnished me? Now that I have matured to the point where I can truly appreciate life my prayers have turned to when will my big break come, how come some others are so lucky? I pray each day to be given the opportunity to make a greater difference than I already do. Yeah silly me, I wish I could be a perfect & save the world Maybe I’m searching for a night in shining amour. It may seem silly as though I’m living in a dream world. But, if U are a dreamer, a believer in hope then we are meant to be. After many years of searching & wasted time, I’ve decided that if we are really meant to be to put fate to the test & hence, I’m not a subscribing member & may not be able to send or retrieve message. I know in my heart that the person I’m looking for will have all means, power, intelligence, drive & ability to find me. P.S. just remember that I am not necessarily searching for a lover but the one that knows we are meant to be together.