These are all the things I am not. I am not Black or dark skinned. I am not over 8 inches, I am normally endowed. I am not young, I am not under 40, I am not Bi and I am not gay. I am not six feet tall. I have not mastered mental Domination. I am not handsome like a prince. Now if you are still with me these are all the things I am. A Dominant male involved in the scene. I have an outdoor rustic appearance, semi good looking. I tried vanilla relationships, but I still had my desire to control and Dominate. I needed to quench my desire to bind, control, fetter, punish (when naughty) a female submissive/slave. I worship and adore submissive woman. I believe a sub is at her most alluring, sensuous, exotic and erotic when she gives up control to another. Yes I will place her on a pedestal, to be a submissive and take the D/s journey is a brave adventure, only few are willing and brave enough to take. My limits, I won't do scat, , anything else is fair game, and If I don't know it, I wish to learn. I am a loving but strict Dom, I'm steady, sensible, easy to know, and patient. I know who I am, and what I want and where I am in life. I can punish you [very evil grin] then wipe away your tears, I can chastise you, and then make you feel safe and loved, I can be your daddy, uncle, teacher, svengali, kidnapper whatever it is the lady wishes and desires. Lord Taubada 8{