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My Ideal Person i am looking for a Woman who is able to enjoy life and is sure about herself and what she wants. Preferably a woman who is a sucessful professional or executive with interests similar to mine. Someone who is looking for a life partner who is a helpmate as well as a soul mate. Intelligence is the primary characteristic that i look for and hope that my partner would appreciate that quality in me.