I'm pretty-much homebound and I don't mind it. I also like activities with friend(s) but I tend to get bored easily. Pity, huh? Life must not be too bad for the man in the mirror because people look and say that I couldn't be a day over 44ish or so. If I were to remove goatee, then it's somewhere in my late 30's. My, how the Romans kept busy throwing clock(s) out of the window just to see the time fly because to hit "double nickels" in a few months is a blessing to reach any age older than what you are... I workout about 3 x per week (but do I look it, I'd say not), and I try and maintain a healthy diet--always. It would help if my potential mate is the same way. Now that I have time on my hands, I spend more time in the kitchen preparing and having fun while cooking home-cooked meals, or a change. Instead of relying on fast-foods of some sort. So, I watch the food-network channel and I have a good time preparing meals. I don't care for the bar scene and likewise for PNP and all of his friends, family and neighbors who follow him (420 ok). But I prefer discreet one on one because I'm not ready for whose in the other room, yet (although it does seem a bit intrigueing, tehehe). Penetration is not an issue with me as much as [B][COLOR darkblue]frottage[/COLOR][/B], and if you don't know what that is sometimes I say, "well..." and other times I say "oh well..." She stopped years ago so what is a career guy to do besides penetrating somebody on a whim is not my thing. At least, not yet. I have taken a closer look at chemistry and how it can break all the rules if you let it. THEN, and only then when it becomes NOT easy to say, NO to this and NO to that because it's like playing with fire. You can't win (usually)! So this time around in life I'm targeting whomever fits the bill; what's in the heart and how people are treated is what matters. A racial preference is not an issue as much as what is connected on a positive note when we meet, and how healthy our communication builds; and what level of chemistry do we possess. Is that asking for too much? Well, time is of the essence. I don't want to waste it all on foolishness that more-than-likely you and I have probably been-there; and done-that, type thing years ago. Or, is that saying too much to (tehehe)?