Hi Guys: Moved back to Michigan from Washington DC. I strongly believe you can't love someone if you don't know how to love yourself first.I'm used to long term relationships. The longest was 16 years. My hobbies are reading good books,cooking everything accept American,traveling, and enjoying different cultures when given the opportunity. Not judgmental and don't like people that pass judgments. I like for my mind to be adventurous it keeps the mind youthful. I enjoy my quality time and prefer the person I'm with to do likewise. I'm HIV Negative. I don't have a problem with someone that is. As long as they're honest, and up front. The utmost important value to me in a relationship and friendships is trust and honesty. I'm a class clown at heart. I guess good habits die hard. I like who I am and I will not change me for someones idea of what they think I should be. I'm not a puppet and, I would respect him to be the same. I love one on one romantic relationships two people share. Even through the hard times. If there were no hard times their would be no good times.