I believe in reservations, well made. Excellent desserts eaten slowly with a great cup of coffee. A sprited discussion after which we can still hold hands and want to be together. Movies. home or not. Helping strangers and . Being a role model.. Not judging. Giving hope. Laughing at anything, especially my mistakes, but yours too if it lightens things up. Listening thoughtfully to others. Chivalry. Patriotism. Honor. Fun, excitement, thrills, calculated risks. Loud music. Soft music. Acknowleding beauty. Lifelong learning. Poetry, philosophy, languages, science, hardware stores, maps, books. Travel.