I'm originally from Omaha. I have been told many times that I'm lots of fun and a very exciting guy to be with 9 out of 10 women say I'm much better looking in person."I dont use to get on here much you can search me on Face book on Jefferson Derek Hudges and drop me a line will get back " I will leave it to you to be the judge.I'm genuine, confident, kind, strong, sensual, sexy, romantic, friendly, 100% real, most important I'm mindful of and emotionally, physically, mentally, available to meet my women?s needs and I have a positive outlook on life. No, I'm not full of myself as I know where I came from and "I'm not a player" and I should say I don't have time for games or flakes as I have a lot to offer the right women. I?m a Civil Engineer with my own successful company ,I'm also a bit of a bad boy in a "good way" with a wild side I guess I'm like a M and M a tough hard exterior on the outside soft and sweet on the inside once you get to know me.. I'm looking for a "meaningful relationship with intellectual intimacy". I believe intimacy provides the foundation for a lasting relationship along with honesty, trust, compatibility, emotional growth and romantic passion. Are you ready to ride with me? Let's go on life's journey together.

My Ideal Person I'm looking for a woman who is positive, energetic, and believes in herself. I am interested in meeting a woman who is active and outgoing, but who also enjoys just sitting back and relaxing sometimes. I appreciate someone who can crack a witty joke, but who can also be philosophical at times. I am looking for someone who values "experiences" over "things." I value honesty and integrity, and I would expect my companion to do the same. I would like to meet someone who is genuine, who does not play games who's not afraid to show interest or affection toward others. Outwardly, I am looking for someone who takes care of herself, but who is not pretentious, self-centered, or overly preoccupied with material things