I am one of a kind... fun, wild, spirited, artsy, mostly easy going, very unique personality and am from LA I like the bar scene, but I don't like to go to clubs with loud music where you can't talk and your just drinking champagne (i cannot drink more than one glass), I do go to the club New Lex if you are familiar, because the owner is my friend.... and there I will go wild if you want. I prefer something unique and different when I go out on dates.I also enjoy a simple meal. I love surprises! When I drink its only 1-5 glasses of white wine or beer. Occasionally I will have some sake, champagne a cocktail or soju. I do not care whether dates are one on one or in a "sociable" party setting (like a big dinner, or seated at a big table at R2) I love talking about my life and want to hear about your life too whether its good or bad things. I am very fashionable and come from money so I do have nice things, however my relationship with my parents its such that i would not like to take money from them anymore, I think it would greatly improve our personal relations. I am used to nice things and so I try this site. I am seeking a relationship that could in the future end up serious and I would even like another (i am ready immediately, but if you are not that's ok) Money and career are important enough that I would like to be able to go shopping, travel, explore new places and live comfortably without worry. to me. I was a model/designer/dj/brand image/blogger when i first came to Japan... i was making a bout 1 million yen a month. I got married however and became mom and wanted to only be mom so I sold my business. I am separated but currently going through a a horrible divorce and custody battle for my who are very young... but unfortunately because of Japanese family law I will most likely loose everything because my husband kidnapped my . What I most need in a relationship out of everything I have said thus far is to be told I am loved, be complimented, paid attention too, i want romance. My x husband and my parents only criticize me and never say anything positive and although I am strong enough to deal with this in a healthy way it would be nice to hear It from someone who is loving me