My perception of an ideal relationship: The longer I live and learn to love life, the more I realize the impact of your attitude on life. Attitude, to me, is more important than facts. Dont worry if I love you..I DO !! Focus on yours for me..Your attitude to me is more important than the your past, than education, than money, than circumstances, than your failures, than your successes, than what other people think of you or say or do. Pay attention to your feelings about me...Your attitude is more important than appearance, your giftedness and talent or skill. Its what will make or break a company...a church..a friendship ..a home. The remarkable thing is you have a choice every day regarding the attitude you will embrace for us on that day. We cannot change our past...i cannot change you, and I wont, you are perfect the way you are to me...the fact that you will act in a certain way gives me curiosity and interest. We will not change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude, and love for each other...I am convinced that life is 20% what happens to me and 80% how I react to it. And so it is with you...we are in charge of our attitudes. Give me yours abundantly, enthusiastically, emotionally, peacefully, however you feel at that moment. And....I promise I will do the same for you