I prefer to get to know someone before I become too involved with them, but sometimes the chemistry is there and nature just takes its course. I'm really shy around women until I get to know them, so it goes without saying that if she likes what she sees and really wants it, then she would have to be the one to make the first move. I would like to find the perfect someone who would compliment my life and be able to assert herself when necessary and take charge of my life at times, as I can tend to become reckless and careless to an extreme. Sometimes this could be a good thing and at other times not so good.