I'm soft spoken, and can be considered observant until I assess a situation and reach my comfort level. I have a subtle, sometimes sarcastic sense of humor. I love to laugh and have fun and am a content person. I enjoy the mountains and the beaches and everywhere in between. I love to go in search of modern paintings and antiques and other "treasures". I enjoy museums and all the arts. Wine tasting and dining out are on the list of favorites as well. I'm a traditionalist and fiercely loyal sometimes old fashioned. Although I live a quiet, rather conservative lifestyle, I'm open minded to various points of view. I would describe myself as moderate in almost every arena. I have an opinion on almost every subject, but it is offered only in order to share ideas or interject an additional point of view. I'm thoughtful, caring, compassionate and considerate of others. I'm work and play hard. I am a 'family first' kind of guy and have much to offer and share.It's an intriguing journey we're all on, and I try to keep it interesting and exciting. I have a passion for living and consider my most important assets to be the people in my life. I'd love to share it all with someone special. I can be very supportive and love to give to those I care for, yet can receive graciously as well. I'm easy to talk to, but I really really know how to listen - a talent in itself, in my opinion. I am quite comfortable with myself, and know myself well. I am proud of what I have achieved in this world on my own, without meaning to be egotistical about it.But your most important asset to me is a strong sense of humor. If we can't find humor in life, then we're all pretty lost. Just searching for the one man who's life experiences blend well with mine. If my words appeal to you feel free to email me and we will go from there. I'm looking for a kind, gentle, caring lady with a well-developed sense of humor. I've been deeply hurt and am pretty gun-shy, so you'll need to be patient and understanding. In a perfect world, we could trust and accept everyone at face value. Unfortunately our world is not so perfect. I try to keep an open mind and open heart, but I have been deceived in the past. So honesty is a major focus for me in any relationship.