I have been out of a 14 year relationship that failed when I caught my BF cheating, and 5 years of getting over the betrayal and him. After finally getting up on my two feet, dusting off the dirt to get back into dating, I have discovered the art of seduction is no longer present in the world of dating. The excitement of the first kiss, unbuttoning his shirt, or slacks to discover if he wears tight y whites, boxers or briefs. Following the treasure trail to new discovery.... It is my hope that the mystery, foreplay, flirting... the art of seduction isn't lost. Charm the pants off, rather than the first picture I see is of your assets. I'm a real dad with grandkids, looking for someone to share life's journey and adventure with. Looking for friends to build a strong and solid foundation on that can lead into a relationship of depth, intimacy and romance. A foundation of trust, honesty and communication. I have uncompromising values that give me my integrity, and moral compass who has made me into the man I am today.