I have worked hard and have played hard. I am furtunate enough to have been able to be early retired and to have plenty of time to on hand, which I would prefer to spend together instead of alone, with a kind, honest, and sincere person. Although a LTR would be great, I'm very happy to just find meaningful, true friendships and/or good buddies to enjoy the better things in life together. Only had one major relationship in my life which lasted for nearly 30 years, so no rush here to jump into the sack on first sight. I am a romantic, passionate lover of good cuisine, love myself and my men dressed well if not elegant (although some leather turns me on), like my travels local and worldwide in comfort and style and my scotch with lots of ice and a bit of water. Oh... and I HATE shopping, so if you want to drag me to the mall, you need to a be damn smart cookie! In bed, well, very versatile here, from vanilla to quite a lot of kink too, preferably with lots of verbal use and abuse. Enough said ! Interested ? Get in touch, I wont bite and will answer all mails !